tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4545386490901651666.post540471253658980694..comments2011-09-26T08:51:46.306-05:00Comments on Diary of a FRUSTRATED Black Woman: I Got A Man. What Yo’ Man Got To Do With Me?Miss Quantahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17887203229635015567noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4545386490901651666.post-71063570674829260302011-09-26T08:51:46.306-05:002011-09-26T08:51:46.306-05:00You can't disagree with my #2s without giving ...You can't disagree with my #2s without giving a reason. Plan and simple. Before you disagree tho, let me give you a little more detail. A woman has knowledge of what it is to be a man. A man has knowledge of what it is to be a man.<br /><br />Note: I did not say a woman can walk in a man's shoes and vice versa. If we went to the word of God, it's clearly outlined in what man/woman should embody: the values they should have, respect and love. From learning the hard way, I sure as heck know what a man is NOT.<br /><br />1. Both men and women from time to time are blinded by beauty. However, if you have experienced enough Van Gogh relationships, you know that although physical appearance is a factor, it takes more than good looks to be kept around.<br /><br />2. This logic = cheating, the "other" woman and adultery. Men and women alike need to 1. Respect the relationship of others and 2. Be secure in themselves so they don't have to go after unavailable women and men.<br /><br />3. Yep, the woman really does have the choice to end it. I don't know how many times I've literally had to cuss some dude out because he didn't listen the first time I said "I'm not interested." So I agree that the woman has the final say in the convo, but the fellas make it so HARD to politely decline their offer. (i.e. following me around the store, sitting next to me on the bus, swerving into my lane while we in traffic and constantly coming by my cubicle complimenting my outfit).<br /><br />Thanks for reading!<br />You're the first to disagree & I have NO problem discussing it with you.Miss Quantahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17887203229635015567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4545386490901651666.post-55506773259030332122011-09-26T02:22:34.819-05:002011-09-26T02:22:34.819-05:00I disagree with your #2s (A woman knows what it is...I disagree with your #2s (A woman knows what it is to be a man and vice versa). I think they are wrong - plain and simple. <br /><br />As far as your take:<br />1. It's normal for him to be blinded by her beauty - it had to be enough to make him STEP UP and take a risk!!! Once he got there, he had to fight hard....as a woman, unless you regularly approach men, you can NOT understand this.<br />2. I think a man has to be willing to get the woman if HE wants her. He cannot be worried about the OTHER man.<br />3. See #2. It is the woman's job to END the conversation....I agree with you that it went on too long. Every extra second after "I got a man" encourages him to think it's possible to win her anyway.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4545386490901651666.post-13460205538483005722011-09-25T21:38:53.213-05:002011-09-25T21:38:53.213-05:00Thanks hunni bun!! It's soooooooooo important ...Thanks hunni bun!! It's soooooooooo important for women to understand their value lies in the wisdom they apply to life as opposed to their curves...wisdom comes from God so ergo...your greatest resource is a spiritual relationship with ChristAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4545386490901651666.post-81073286459241149722011-09-25T20:48:44.237-05:002011-09-25T20:48:44.237-05:00Luv it! You are so right about us knowing our valu...Luv it! You are so right about us knowing our value and not basing off of what others say nor from the physical. Having a spirit filled with Jesus will radiate from the inside to the outside . This will also attract a diffrent type of man or woman.Lyric Xpressionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05501819378837423454noreply@blogger.com